Grace's Testimonial

My name is Grace, and I live in Kalerewe, Uganda. I have been married for five years, and to many people, my life looks perfect—comfortable, secure, and blessed. But behind the closed doors of my marriage lies a painful secret I have carried alone for years. My husband is a successful businessman. Every month without fail, he gives me 5 million shillings for upkeep. He pays all the bills. He buys me whatever I ask for. He treats me with kindness, respect, and love. But in the one area that matters deeply in a marriage… he is weak. No matter how much he tries, he cannot satisfy me in bed. Sometimes he avoids intimacy. Sometimes he finishes too fast. Sometimes nothing happens at all. At first, I tried to be patient. I encouraged him. I prayed about it. I even suggested we seek medical or spiritual help. But he kept insisting that everything was “fine.” Years passed, and my frustration grew. I felt lonely, unfulfilled, and emotionally empty. I began to feel like a wife in name, but not in reality. Then temptation came. A man I knew—a friend, confident, charming—started giving me attention. He understood my struggles without me even explaining. He told me things I longed to hear. He awakened feelings I had buried. And for the first time, I found myself wanting to cheat. My mind said no… But my heart and body said yes. I started battling with guilt, fear, and desire. I knew cheating could destroy my marriage. I knew it could shame my family. I knew it could ruin the man who loves me deeply. But I also knew I couldn’t continue living in emotional and physical starvation. That’s when I decided to seek spiritual clarity, guidance, and solutions. I wanted: Healing for my marriage Strength for my husband Peace for my heart Protection from temptation Restoration of intimacy Because cheating is not a solution— it only brings more pain, secrets, and problems. What I truly wanted was a balance: A happy home, a strong marriage, and a partner who satisfies both my emotional and physical needs. Through spiritual direction and cleansing, I began to see changes: My urges calmed My mind became clearer My marriage started healing My husband began opening up Peace entered my home again I share my story because many women quietly suffer in silence—trapped between loyalty and desire, marriage and frustration. Some end up cheating. Some walk away. Some lose everything. But there are solutions, if you seek the right guidance. This is my truth. This is my struggle. And this is how I started my journey toward healing and restoration.